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Vol. II · The Grief Issue · Philadelphia · Est. 2026
MELVIN WILLIAMS SR.

Grief Truths

Overcoming Grief Truths

Twenty-one truths from Every Corner Has a Name.

Grief Truth 01: Strength isn't the absence of tears. Strength is crying when you need to and getting back up anyway.
“Strength isn't the absence of tears. Strength is crying when you need to and getting back up anyway.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 02: Unsolved is not the same as forgotten.
“Unsolved is not the same as forgotten.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 03: Pain that never gets to cry finds another way out.
“Pain that never gets to cry finds another way out.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 04: Grief doesn't run on anybody's schedule.
“Grief doesn't run on anybody's schedule.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 05: Forgiveness isn't the absence of grief. It's not the absence of anger.
“Forgiveness isn't the absence of grief. It's not the absence of anger.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 06: Grief doesn't ask how someone died before it moves into your chest.
“Grief doesn't ask how someone died before it moves into your chest.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 07: Let the tears come instead of letting the anger decide.
“Let the tears come instead of letting the anger decide.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 08: Breaking the cycle starts with one person deciding their grief will not become another family's grief.
“Breaking the cycle starts with one person deciding their grief will not become another family's grief.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 09: Where I come from, every corner has a name, and every name has a funeral.
“Where I come from, every corner has a name, and every name has a funeral.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 10: It's okay to cry. It's okay to heal. And it's okay to keep moving.
“It's okay to cry. It's okay to heal. And it's okay to keep moving.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 11: Holding it in isn't going to make you strong. It's going to make you heavy.
“Holding it in isn't going to make you strong. It's going to make you heavy.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 12: Grief from being left behind doesn't get a hospital. It gets a funeral, and then it gets silence.
“Grief from being left behind doesn't get a hospital. It gets a funeral, and then it gets silence.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 13: Anger is grief wearing armor.
“Anger is grief wearing armor.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 14: The goal of grief is to carry that love into a life that keeps moving, not to stop loving the person you lost.
“The goal of grief is to carry that love into a life that keeps moving, not to stop loving the person you lost.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 15: That's what a trigger takes: not one day, but every day that would have come after it.
“That's what a trigger takes: not one day, but every day that would have come after it.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 16: Grief doesn't only change how you feel. It changes who you let close.
“Grief doesn't only change how you feel. It changes who you let close.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 17: A mother's peace is worth more than their silence.
“A mother's peace is worth more than their silence.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 18: Every time I tell my children 'I love you,' I'm saying the words I never heard.
“Every time I tell my children 'I love you,' I'm saying the words I never heard.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 19: I'm too old to die young now. So I'm going to do the thing my father never got the chance to do. I'm going to grow old.
“I'm too old to die young now. So I'm going to do the thing my father never got the chance to do. I'm going to grow old.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 20: Say their names. Let the world know they were here.
“Say their names. Let the world know they were here.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name
Grief Truth 21: It’s not your fault. The people we lose to suicide are fighting something most of us can’t see from the outside, no matter how close we are.
“It’s not your fault. The people we lose to suicide are fighting something most of us can’t see from the outside, no matter how close we are.” — Melvin Williams Sr., Every Corner Has a Name

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